First time experiences with our children leave an indelible mark. Watching them grow and reach milestones brings a delight to our hearts that is unparalleled in parenting.

Baby’s first time rolling over, sitting up, crawling and walking. Taking her first step, saying his first word, getting her first tooth and then later on losing that first tooth.

I always felt very sentimental when it was time for my baby’s first haircut. To me, this signaled the time when he turned into a toddler.

Sooner than you think, it’s time for the first day of Kindergarten, whether at home or elsewhere. It can be unnerving when they attempt to ride a bicycle for the first time without training wheels. You may become more nervous than your child at her first recital or first big sporting event.

Before you know it, your little tike has grown up and is ready to drive a car alone for the first time to his first “official” job. For some, the time comes when they meet their future spouse for the first time.

There is a sense of accomplishment when our kids reach various “firsts.” Cheering our children on as they learn new skills and encouraging them when they lack confidence is important. Setting a good example for them by being loving mentors and coaches really does matter. Allowing them the freedom to try out various “firsts” such as an art class or a writing class is less threatening to us than letting them eventually choose their own friends, goals and beliefs. Our job is to set a firm, Biblical foundation on which they can grow and learn. Lessons will come not only from good experiences but also from their own mistakes. I have found out the meaning of praying without ceasing largely because of my children.

Keeping records of these first milestones are important so that we can look back and reminisce. It comes in handy when your child asks you about the first time he walked or talked. God tells us the significance of remembering what he has done in our lives. Recalling all of these accomplishments gives us specific reasons to be thankful. You can keep track in a baby book, scrapbook, on your computer or on video.

How can we let go of our children for the first time? Actually, for me and my husband, the process of letting go began even before they were born. We prayed for them during my pregnancies and dedicated them to the Lord in infancy. Throughout their lives, it continues to be a process of letting go of the controls and realizing that our wise Heavenly Father loves them even more than we do and he is trustworthy. After all, He is the FIRST and the last. Isaiah 44:6b